What Should I Gather for My Photographer on My Wedding Day?

To understand the “What” to include in your flat-lay, let’s begin with the “Why?” Flat-lays are a nice way to bring together both your style as well as your legacy, all in one spot as a keepsake that lasts beyond your wedding day.

Flat-lay photos go nicely to help define the mood and to help set the story of your wedding day and what led up to who you and your fiance are, and why that’s worth communicating to your children one day.

What Should I Include In My Flat-Lay?

Now, on to the “What?”! We suggest including whatever might be included in the old saying, "Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, and Something Blue".

Of course, you don't have to include something blue, but the main point stands: include things that are meaningful and speak to your relationship with your history, your relationships with your spouse, family, friends, and your future.

Some good examples include the following:

• Your invitation suite (we recommend bringing at least two envelopes for styling purposes)
• Be sure to store any bendable materials in between cardboard or some way that prevents bending! That way it actually “lays flat” : )
• Save the Dates
• A sentimental ring box
• If you don’t have a ring box that you’re in love with, ask your photographer! They might have something like a Mrs. Box you can use!
• Rings
• If you want to have all your rings photographed, make sure that you have both your and your fiance's ring with you!
• Jewelry
• Your earrings, necklace, etc.
• This includes heirloom jewelry!
• Decorations and other items you’re using during your wedding day
• Your menu, program, and small items that will be used to decorate the reception area
• Your veil
• Your shoes
• Your bouquet
• Your perfume
• Your Groom’s boutonniere
• Floral trimmings
• Ask the florist for these! They usually have some leftover trimmings that your photographer can use to style with.
• Any other sentimental items
• We’ve seen items such as: gifts to your bridemaids/groomsmen, old pocket watches, sentimental handkerchiefs, heirloom saucer and mug, and more! Feel free to be creative!

And remember, if you and your groom would like a flat-lay of his things, a lot of the same items apply! Some others you may consider for your guy are:

• His shoes
• Dress socks
• Tie
• Boutonniere
• Cologne
• Any custom gift such as cuff-links, a watch, bourbon, etc.

In order to make things run smoothly, we always recommend putting all your small details in a ziploc and a small show box. You can place your larger details and the shoe box in a larger bag so they’re ready to hand to your photographer!

Thanks for Reading!